50 Affirmations that will Bring your Sexy Back

It's not unusual for many women to feel like we've lost our MOJO. I've been there. It seemed like, one day, out of nowhere, I was wearing old baggy sweats and gym shoes with small holes in them...every single day. Even in the summertime. I walked with my head down, hoping not to be seen and all compliments were overshadowed by negative self-talk...a mess! The lack of inward confidence was definitely showing on the outside.

This isn't about getting your nails and toes done, shaving or waxing, or keeping your hair done...it was an overall feeling. Because honestly, we can be sexy without any of the extras. Being sexy is an attitude, first. It's confidence, assurance, sense of humor, optimism, and being comfortable with your quirkiness. These are all attributes naturally within us all. But sometimes we just need a little reassurance and that's perfectly fine.

So, allow me to share with you 50 affirmations I've used that work! Feel free to add the exterior work as you please. This focus is on the #selflove aspect of it all.

1. I am attractive.

2. I am bold.

3. I am respectful.

4. I am respected.

5. I am spontaneous.

6. I am fun.

7. I am creative.

8. I am open.

9. I am energetic.

10. I am compassionate.

11. I am beautiful.

12. I am worthy.

13. I am healthy.

14. I am safe to express my sexuality.

15. I am peaceful.

16. I am balanced.

17. I am radiant.

18. I am joyous.

19. I am loved.

20. I am loving.

21. I am lovable.

22. I am unique.

23. I am full of vitality.

24. I am courageous.

25. I am the creator of my reality.

26. I am free of self-doubt.

27. I am independent.

28. I am brave.

29. I am wanted.

30. I am appreciated.

31. I am grateful for the good energy flowing through me.

32. I am valuable.

33. I am comfortable in my own skin.

34. I am empowered.

35. I am natural.

36. I am passionate.

37. I am authentic.

38. I am confident with my physical appearance.

39. I am open to becoming a better version of myself every day.

40. I am connected to my body.

41. I am in tune with my inner self.

42. I am released from all doubts and fears.

43. I am charismatic.

44. I am connected to my higher self.

45. I am divine.

46. I am elegant.

47. I am intelligent.

48. I am feminine.

49. I am sensual.

50. I am sexy.

Say these affirmations first thing every morning and whenever you think about it throughout your day.

The Outcome

Did I say all 50 affirmations to myself

every day? In the beginning, yes. But after a while, I didn't need to say, "I am released from all doubts and fears," because I was already feeling fearless that day. The toughest affirmations to say out loud were usually the most needed. Some days I didn't feel worthy or confident, so it was with extreme importance that I affirm those with the purest of intentions.

Now, even when I don't look my best, I still look my best. I think highly of myself because I act in a higher vibration.

Think about what being sexy means to you. It's different for all of us. I didn't want the beauty standards of society to define me, so I focused more on the interior, first. This doesn't mean I don't wear makeup, get my hair done, or get manicures and pedicures sometimes, but I KNOW that I look wonderful without them.

Some honorable mentions include, smile/laugh more, be polite, embrace silence, walk with confidence, stay hydrated, play with colorful clothing, love your quirkiness, engage in fun activities, and enjoy the moment. I hope these affirmations and tips help you see and feel the #goddess in you because you are deserving of everything! How you perceive yourself makes a difference in how you feel and act.

Add to the list! Have any of these worked for you? What affirmations do you use for yourself? Let's discuss in the comments!